Friday, October 27, 2006

Only Rapists Can Prevent Rape

A lot has been said about how to prevent rape. Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. Hell, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all. Instead of that bullshit, how about:

If a woman is drunk, don't rape her.
If a woman is walking alone at night, don't rape her.
If a woman is drugged and unconscious, don't rape her.
If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't rape her.
If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't rape her.
If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't rape her.
If a woman is asleep in her bed, don't rape her.
If a woman is asleep in your bed, don't rape her.
If a woman is doing her laundry, don't rape her.
If a woman is in a coma, don't rape her.
If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't rape her.
If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't rape her.
If a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don't rape her.
If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't rape her.
If your step-daughter is watching TV, don't rape her.
If you break into a house and find a woman there, don't rape her.
If your friend thinks it's okay to rape someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.
If your "friend" tells you he raped someone, report him to the police.
If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and it's your turn, don't rape her, call the police and tell the guy he's a rapist.
Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it's not okay to rape someone.
Don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape.
Don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
Don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
Don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
Don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself.

If you agree, re-post it. It's that important.

From the f-word blog.

Friday, October 06, 2006

Cute Pussy

cute pussy

A cute pussy. (Part of the reclaim the word "pussy" campaign started by SparkleMatrix's cat)

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Shoes - Torture Instruments

"Shoes," Sheila Jeffreys says, "are almost becoming torture instruments.

This struck a cord with me. Taken from a very interesting blog by Anika

My number one rule for buying shoes is if hurts my feet then I will not buy them.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Refuse to Wear Dainty Shoes



Refuse to wear dainty shoes

I love this photo which I found on Flickr

Sunday, October 01, 2006

Joey Barton's Bottom



male bottom - joey barton mooning

Joey Barton, a Manchester City player, mooned during a match against Everton yesterday. The Sunday Press are choosing to either pixelate the offending bottom or else simply not use a picture. Match of The Day are the only programme daring to show the offending bottom in its full glory.

The Sunday Press are never averse to showing us female bottoms, once again male modesty is preserved. Only Match of The Day and Calciofan save the day!

Thanks to CalcioFan for the mooning shots. Here is a video of the incident without any of the pixelation which Sky are currently providing in their coverage of the incident.